I think that perspective matters, everything in this picture is blurry. It's blurry for a reason, to show you that sometimes in life not everything is clear to you. Knowing that not everything is supposed to be clear is okay. Me, for example, I'm like this picture. My life is blurry, but I realize that there are other views of this picture. One may see an object that is clear to them, and another person would see this as one blurry picture. I don't blame other people for my actions, nor do I blame someone for their actions. Of course, I give my advice to someone before they do something, whether it be positive or negative because they want my perspective on things. Most of the time, in my humble opinion, people only look at one perspective, which is their perspective. Some people might not be able to see other perspectives because their mind is like tunnel vision. If you can't see other people's view points, how are you able to help yourself in this world? If you only look at it from one angle, you don't know what decision you make will impact you in the future. Always think before you do something, think deeply, and ask yourself, "is this what I want?" Or "am I making the right choice for me to feel genuine happiness?", "How will this impact others?"